Sometimes our toughest hardship leads to our greatest purpose.” -Lysa Terkeurst
It seems a lot of people go through life not knowing their real purpose. The struggles they face get the better of them and they tend to get lost or give up. But then you have those people who show us how to take what you have been dealt and turn it into something else…something great!
That is just what Lolly did. When Lolly’s daughter, Anna, faced life-threatening seizures, when the light in her once perfectly developing child started to dim, when Anna could no longer recall the names of her family members, though she was getting standard medical interventions, Lolly couldn’t help but think there had to be something more…something that could turn Anna’s life around. And so some research began. And what started out as a few conversations here and there and a little bit of online research turned into a monumental task, one that seemed would never end. Lolly, along with a crew of amazing team members, took on the fight of changing the law…to bring medical cannabis to the state of Pennsylvania.
For a while it almost seemed like Lolly’s address was 501 N 3rd St, Harrisburg, PA 17120, a.k.a. the Pennsylvania State Capitol. Almost daily for the last 2 plus years, when our Legislators were in session, Lolly was there…fighting, advocating, strategizing…She wasn’t afraid to talk to anyone! She let no title intimidate her. She became a force to be reckoned with. Almost every Pennsylvania legislator knows her name!
Her work never stopped. Day and night she put plan and effort, sweat and tears, into the cause. Everyday her team could count on her to be there for them…organizing, communicating, inspiring…all in the name of not just her own child, but every sick Pennsylvanian needing access to medical cannabis.
What she was walking through with Anna and the pain she saw many individuals going through, lead her to one of her greatest purposes! With passionate pursuit, unceasing prayers, through tears and sleepless nights, Lolly lead a team, fighting to help them not give up, to keep going, to press on.
I thank God for giving her the strength, knowledge and power to move mountains, to defeat giants, to run and not grow weary…
~Jana (her little sis)
And so, today we wanted to take this opportunity to celebrate her...this girl on fire! Not only to show our appreciation, but to wish her the happiest of birthdays.
We reached out to our community for a few words about Lolly and what came back was a FLOOD of beautiful sentiments. So many in fact, we may have missed a few people. Please continue the love in the comment section:
Lolly, you are the true Champion of this fight. Even though your own child was healing at home. You didn't remain quiet and hide. You chose to fight louder and longer. To assure every family had the opportunity to find their own Miracle. I'm so proud to call you my friend. Thank you Love Diana, Mike, Ryan, Alexis & Hailey
To watch how you have grown in strength, integrity and wisdom is something to be marveled at! I thank God each day that He has blessed me with not only a great sister, but also a best friend! - Jana
Lolly is one of the most genuine, hard-working and honest people I have ever met. Lolly's compassion is contagious to those lucky enough to know her. She has a heart of gold and is always willing to go the extra mile to help, not only a friend, but anyone in need. -Ang Sharrer
"Lolly is one of the most dedicated and caring people I know. Because of her dedication and aptitude, and the ability to build a rapport and genuine relationship with the senators and representatives, we managed to get a better-than-average medical marijuana bill passed in a state where the legislature is controlled by ultra-conservatives who equated marijuana will evil. It's fitting that the bill gets signed into law on her birthday of all days!" -Derek
"Lolly, I just don't do mushy...so I'm not going to try. You know I love ya and it's been amazing walking this journey with you. Happy birthday, Buddy" -Dana
My son suggested I read “How To Win Friends and Influence People” as a means to improve my advocacy efforts. Again and again while reading the recommendations, I thought to myself; “Lolly naturally does that, and that, and that, and that”. You are an amazing people-person whose capacity for compassion is limitless. I consider you family whether you like it or not. Happy Birthday! - Luke
Special is a word that is used to describe someone that is distinct , exceptional and one of a kind ... even with all of that , it still falls short of describing all that you are Lolly. Thank you for your leadership, your motivation and for keeping us all together when we wanted to fall apart. But most of all, thank you for your friendship. You are special to me and always will be. Love you lots. -Deena
Have you ever met someone you KNEW would change the world and in that moment inspired you to do the same? That is “Lolly” to me, but what I don’t think you realize is just HOW MANY people you have inspired. So today, on your birthday, we wanted to show you. I hope that your heart has been filled this morning my dear friend. - Cara
Intelligent, tenacious, articulate, funny, beautiful and STRONG came up in quotes time and time again, WE CONCUR LOLLY BENCH MYERS – from your best “buddies” at C4C
"You continued to amaze me more and more every week, as things got harder and more frustrating to deal with. You might have others fooled, but I think you are a paid lobbyist - because you sure didn't act like someone new to the game. Happy Birthday to a wonderful Mom, a tireless advocate, and a friend." - Jim Davis
My hearts bursts with love for that girl. I’ve not known an advocate like her. She’s a fearless & loving force for good who looks for the best in every person she meets, no matter how crazy they may seem (and we all know there's a lot of crazy where we've been.) True to herself yet her own worst critic, she is generous & kind beyond reason and hopelessly optimistic despite her endless doubts. She’s been the soul of this movement & the stuff that kept it together. SB 3 might have passed one of these days, but I can tell you it would have taken a lot longer & it most certainly would have been way less fun. Oh how I wish I could clone her for every issue we work on... PA would be a freaking utopia. How lucky I am to call Lolly my friend. – MP
Lolly....Every time I see you, your actions and passion inspire me to dream more, inspire me to be a better father and pastor. You have called on so many to learn more, do more and become more. This my friend, is genuine leadership, defined." - Pastor Shawn Berkebile
Lolly is the definition of unrelenting strength, courage, and sacrifice. - JoJo
Lolly...You mean so much to so many people. Without your tireless efforts, we know we wouldn't be where we are at today. We are working on changing the world with our babies on our hips. On behalf of Sydney and so many others, THANK YOU and have the happiest of birthdays! - Julie Michaels
Lolly is the kind of friend you miss the moment you leave her. Her strength, passion and loyalty inspire others to do great things. She is truly remarkable. - Becky Dansky
What an amazingly strong woman. We love you!" - Louann Speese
We at PAMCS and Pittsburgh NORML wish Lolly a very Happy Birthday! We would like to thank her from the bottom of our heart for her tireless efforts to improve PA cannabis law. - Patrick and Theresa Nightingale
Lolly is a special woman. Without her, Senate Bill 3 would have never passed. Her determination and tenacity are only matched by her compassion and integrity. We are all very fortunate to have Lolly champion this cause and I consider myself even luckier to call her my friend. – Tim Keller
When I think of Lolly, I am reminded of this childhood educational series, School House Rock, especially the Adverb video, Lolly's. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=14fXm4FOMPM I have observed Lolly using her whole being as a verb; patient, giving, empathetic, kind and kicks it up a notch when others would just back away, hence the adverb, in the very end of the video, it describes Lolly perfectly, "at your service, indubitably! She embodies all that one would want to have in a Mom, sister, family member! – Susan Love
I will never forget the first time I met Lolly. It was on September 30, 2013 at the Midtown Scholar book store for the Harrisburg Hope Cannabis Reform Forum. She was with Dana Ulrich and I could see the passion in their eyes and fire in their hearts. I knew right away that I was meeting some very special people. They looked so ordinary, just a couple everyday moms but greatness was within them because they were carrying a blinding torch of truth that you would have to be blind not to see. How fitting that medical cannabis legislation will be signed into law by Governor Wolf on Lolly's birthday! Over the last 2 1/2 years it has been a pure pleasure and honor to watch Lolly take on the leadership mantle and evolve from ordinary mom to political powerhouse. Dozens of moms and many great people assumed leadership roles and did absolutely amazing work. Everyone though, looked to Lolly for guidance and as an example of strength, courage, wisdom, intelligence, passion and determination. She is an inspiration to all of us. So Happy Birthday Lolly and Happy Birthday Pennsylvania! It's a new day. – Les Stark
Lolly's leadership skills are nothing short of amazing. She went from mom to full time lobbyist in a matter of months. She became the go to person for legislators, lobbyists, reporters and patients. Even when legislators were being totally unreasonable, she didn't back down and would educate them about the true benefits of medical marijuana. I'm proud to be on the same team with Lolly and all the moms in Campaign for Compassion. Thanks and Happy Birthday Lolly! –Erin McCann
Lolly, You're truly an amazing woman! You're a leader and you've proven there is no greater gift than compassion. The light that shines within you has positively influenced so many people. I hope you have an absolutely wonderful birthday, and may God always protect and guide you. Happy Birthday!!! – Nichole McClure
Lolly's evolution from fighter mom to advocate for all has been truly inspirational. I cannot wait to see what my friend will do next. – Angela Ferro
We love you Lolly! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!